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A Philosophy on Importance in Life
I admit it, im a loser watching fright night on a monday afternoon. Give me a break i like horror movies. I was just thinking about this boy I’ve recently encountered and how the last time we spent together was pretty amazing. We talked about governmental systems and how they will always be flaw laden. Then we laid together in my cold non heated ghetto ass van and just laid there holding each other. It was the most comfortable and peaceful act I’ve engaged in.
It reminded me of the one part of George Orwell’s book, 1984, that struck me the most. It was the scene where the main main character lays in a bed with the woman he ran away with, and he comments about how peaceful and natural laying affectionately with another human being feels
This even evolutionarily makes sence because due to being a social species, we depend on others for our survival, physically and emotionally. Therefore, affection is a basic mental necessity.
By affection i dont nessisarily mean sex, i mean any unselfish act of close caring for another person.I place a lot of value in this action and have come to learn more and more about its personal value to myself.
Personally, I’ve realized love isnt the most important thing, and sex isnt the most important thing either. Caring about people that care about you back are what matters even if its someone you’ve just come to know, or true friends and good family. (Emphasis on good because sometimes family members are not always so caring).
Fuck everything else
To many people get caught up in buying shit to make yourself “attractive” or “sexy”.
Being confident and happy is good, but fuck what people think about you if they dont give a shit about you in the first place anyways.
Time is so much more wisely spent on yourself and the people who care about you not on any other shallow losers.
